Comments on: When quitting is the only option http://deniseleeporter.net/2009/07/02/when-quitting-is-the-only-option/ faith,hope, affiliate & network marketing & anything else that's on my mind Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:51:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Denise Lee http://deniseleeporter.net/2009/07/02/when-quitting-is-the-only-option/comment-page-1/#comment-3736 Denise Lee Sat, 01 Aug 2009 00:19:34 +0000 http://netwebmarketer.com/niseylee/wordpress/?p=11#comment-3736 Hi Dorothy, it's a long story that I will tell over time, this is only the first installment. Thank you for your lovely words Hi Dorothy, it’s a long story that I will tell over time, this is only the first installment. Thank you for your lovely words

]]> By: Dorothy L http://deniseleeporter.net/2009/07/02/when-quitting-is-the-only-option/comment-page-1/#comment-3732 Dorothy L Fri, 31 Jul 2009 19:14:01 +0000 http://netwebmarketer.com/niseylee/wordpress/?p=11#comment-3732 Self definitions can be similar to the phrase, 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. We see ourselves differently than others because we are looking at ourselves through critical or judgmental vision where most others do not look at us that way. I can tell you all day that I do not think your a quitter...but I am not seeing through your eyes what you see in yourself.... Your thinking or seeing yourself as a quitter goes far deeper than just not finishing a project or pleasing other people. Your thoughts about being a quitter just because you did not follow through with med school is a bit off. You did not quit...you chose to not do what you thought what was expected of you. High expectations of ourselves because of we feel others want will only result in self-hate, unfulfilled happiness, and an endless search for something that always seems just a hand reach away. You must do for you...you are the one that has to sleep at night with what you choose. Never do what you think is expected of you unless you seriously are in agreement with that choice. Self definitions can be similar to the phrase, ‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’.

We see ourselves differently than others because we are looking at ourselves through critical or judgmental vision where most others do not look at us that way.

I can tell you all day that I do not think your a quitter…but I am not seeing through your eyes what you see in yourself….

Your thinking or seeing yourself as a quitter goes far deeper than just not finishing a project or pleasing other people.
Your thoughts about being a quitter just because you did not follow through with med school is a bit off. You did not quit…you chose to not do what you thought what was expected of you.

High expectations of ourselves because of we feel others want will only result in self-hate, unfulfilled happiness, and an endless search for something that always seems just a hand reach away.

You must do for you…you are the one that has to sleep at night with what you choose. Never do what you think is expected of you unless you seriously are in agreement with that choice.

]]> By: Steve http://deniseleeporter.net/2009/07/02/when-quitting-is-the-only-option/comment-page-1/#comment-3429 Steve Wed, 22 Jul 2009 03:04:50 +0000 http://netwebmarketer.com/niseylee/wordpress/?p=11#comment-3429 I would have to disagree with you in this respect: I don't think you are a Quitter. Otherwise, how have you continued to post since January of 2008! And how have you produced such a successful blog?! All kidding aside, if we have a tendency to quit, we need to label ourselves Winners. Of course, there are times when it is ok to quit, as a stop loss, if all the advice and factors from respected advisors tell us so. However, most of the time, we need to exert our God given qualities of perseverance, and run the race set before us. I would have to disagree with you in this respect: I don’t think you are a Quitter. Otherwise, how have you continued to post since January of 2008! And how have you produced such a successful blog?! All kidding aside, if we have a tendency to quit, we need to label ourselves Winners. Of course, there are times when it is ok to quit, as a stop loss, if all the advice and factors from respected advisors tell us so. However, most of the time, we need to exert our God given qualities of perseverance, and run the race set before us.

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